"good looking"

STA · May 1, 2011, 9:17pm

Re: “good looking”

Looks does not seem to be very important in love marriages. I have seen a lot of very good looking guys falling for average girls just because they have formed good understanding with them. I usually see husbands more good looking as compared to their wives in love marriages which leave me thinking: “inhain aakhir kia nazar aya hai is bandi main?”

In arranged marriages, it is usually the other way round. We usually see the wives more gorgeous as compared to their husbands. This may be because the moms and sisters are in charge in arranged marriages and they try to look for “chand si bahu” for them and “hoor pari” for their sons/ brothers.

I think personality is more important. I know a couple of girls who are dead gorgrous. But when they speak, all their paindoo-ness is evident. As ZK said, it should be a complete package. Looks can be ignored but personality shouldn’t be.

That is what I want to write.