hmm maybe we are. But both a good personality and a good nature and more important then good looks. However, I agree to an extent the only that maybe we the only thing we are certain about before marriage is a person’s good looks, the nature and personality are something we only really get to know after marriage-in an arranged marriage setting. When it comes to “falling in love with someone” , i think we have the time to work out the nature/personality of the person.
what i was trying to say is , that someone’s looks don’t make up for their bad personality.