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What defines attractiveness? Is it how someone else physically views someone? or is it a quality such as intelligence etcc...
Attractive == Crush too in most occasions. That does not define love
In conclusion, attractive people normally dont find love much quicker then unattractive as it as the result fro attractive peeps might be based on that simple physical pleasure.
yes,i agree with u on this..i believe,outer beauty fades away with time..
Re: Good looking people!
IF its beauty that intrigues you... its lust
True Love is blind... and Love is always about the inside not the outside.
A beautiful person is the one who is confident and happy to be who he/she is i.e. some one who is physically, spiritually, and psychologically healthy. Nothing beats that! Not even having the most attractive features, complexion etc. I like to be optimistic and say that although physical beauty is really paid attention to in our society, there is an increasingly growing trend of people searching for a partner who is a lot more than just beauty, some one who has a personality and a brain.
Re: Good looking people!
Well It's not all about heart and seerat or appearance. I believe that it is YOU who maintains and makes yourself attractive and goodlooking. In the first impression noone knows about your seerat people often goes on your looks , your dress, your way of speaking, your confidence and these all things are developed by the person himself like it depends how you are dressed, how you talk (in a humble way or harshly with rude words). To blame your bad looks is not the right way, you should develop your personality. You must have a good haircut or atleast you must take care of your hairs and skin and dress sense. With all these I don't think someone would ignore you.
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What defines attractiveness? Is it how someone else physically views someone? or is it a quality such as intelligence etcc...
Attractive == Crush too in most occasions. That does not define love
In conclusion, attractive people normally dont find love much quicker then unattractive as it as the result fro attractive peeps might be based on that simple physical pleasure.
IF its beauty that intrigues you... its lust
True Love is blind... and Love is always about the inside not the outside.
A beautiful person is the one who is confident and happy to be who he/she is i.e. some one who is physically, spiritually, and psychologically healthy. Nothing beats that! Not even having the most attractive features, complexion etc. I like to be optimistic and say that although physical beauty is really paid attention to in our society, there is an increasingly growing trend of people searching for a partner who is a lot more than just beauty, some one who has a personality and a brain.
Well It's not all about heart and seerat or appearance. I believe that it is YOU who maintains and makes yourself attractive and goodlooking. In the first impression noone knows about your seerat people often goes on your looks , your dress, your way of speaking, your confidence and these all things are developed by the person himself like it depends how you are dressed, how you talk (in a humble way or harshly with rude words). To blame your bad looks is not the right way, you should develop your personality. You must have a good haircut or atleast you must take care of your hairs and skin and dress sense. With all these I don't think someone would ignore you.
my kind advise for u ppl
go and fll in luv with a zombie..or atleast a zombie luking person...aftrall luv shuld be blind
Its sad but true. But I think people have been this "superficial" since God knows how many centuries.
But then like they say jorey asman par bantey hain..there must be some truth to that, no? So I think maybe at face value it might seem like the most khoobsurat larka/larki will get tons of good rishtas, but you will really end up with whoever God has chosen for you and he will make sure that you see that person as a beautiful person. Have you ever noticed a couple where one of them is really good-looking and you might think the girl could have done much better than that? but maybe the girl finds her hubbyy reallllly good-looking? so I feel its all part of God's bigger system. No one is at a loss - neither good-looking people nor not-so-good looking people. (because I dont believe anyone could be ugly, becaue how could God make his own beloved creatures ugly? that is just not possible, maybe the person who has the guts to call someone ugly is full of ugliness from within.)
So I guess the onus is on us to be able to look beyond face value, when faced with such situations. Because ThankFully God makes the final decision.
Re: Good looking people!
good looks or bad looks…they will fade with time. the only thing that will remain is love…that too if its true n sincere love and that you loved the person for who he/she is…character-wise, not look-wise. my mushy mushy post…yearly quota over…
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im sorry but good looking guys are such morons frm hell theres hardly any intellect,see not nice looking guys will always work harder for you.they will be well spoken,smarter n witty.i ve never met a good looking boy who can keep me interested in a conversation for even 3 sec
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Mirch bhai thank you for agreeing with me by only 5 % so may i know why you disagree the other 95?
maybe ur attention span is only 3sec…
yeah for you it is
my kind advise for u ppl go and fll in luv with a zombie..or atleast a zombie luking person...aftrall luv shuld be blind
I dont think it should be blind and jazaks, I have already found mine and very happy Alhumdulillah and no she isn't a zoombie or has to be one :P
Mirch bhai thank you for agreeing with me by only 5 % so may i know why you disagree the other 95?
I agree with the cost of cosmetic surgery will be a limiting factors for many. (5 % agreement) . Poor people are the most contented people too that is why it make 20 percent disagreement , rest of the 75 percent disagreement is about Islamic perspective of cosmetic surgery I will have to post a thesis , but it will derail this thread so some other time.
Even then we’ll be happier than those kinda ppl who chose to be with princes/princesses who treat them like sh!t :halo:
Thank you so much everyone...
That answers my questions...
Basically, its a package deal, lol...
if it s all looks then all khoobsurat people will be happy and vice versa..and that is certainly not the case..i think it depends mostly on ur kismat and ur intellect also..
People regarded as good looking do much better in their lives compared to the ones who are regarded otherwise...The confidence that they get from all the compliments throughout their lives either makes them self obsessed or if they use that confidence for the right reasons...then it brings success to their lives at all levels...
I have noticed especially in the family I have in pakistan that looks matter a hell lot...my girl cousins have rejected so many proposals just on the basis of how the guy looked even if they were doing great with their prof lives...I know they are good looking girls but I still despise that they base everything on how one looks...
This friend's friend is looking for a girl to get married to...and he wants a girl ke " koi dekhe tou dekhta reh jaye".... I mean it's your wife you are talking about not some show piece!
This is obviously true. I used to have a mushroom cut along with huge glasses and now i’ve grown my hair down to my back. I don’t do anything to it, go to school with it dripping wet. well many of my college friends have not seen me for a long time, and whenever they do, they gush soooo much about how pretty i’ve become and the guys who used to ignore me are like soo flirty.i really doubt my face has changed so dramatically. their words just make me realize that much of beauty is just presentation. i never thought a bunch of dead follicles would have such an impression but apparently they do :halo: I hate the emphasis on beauty but I say this hypocritically as I do participate in rituals that have no value besides adding to my perceived ‘beauty’. For example, I get my eyebrows done even though having a unibrow would be functionally fine. Or I have metal eyeglass frames, even though I could use my dad’s old eyeglasses..why?–To look more attractive, of course.
Getting attention from women over and over could be disastrous. It may stop you from actually taking time to build a relation with one person. You may still end up being single.
true. it's not looks - its the kind and type of relationship. you may tumble into a very ugly person who may be a caring , loving and your kind of person -
and then you do not want to search for another . also you keep rejecting others for the same reason .
quality over quantity is preferred
yeah for you it is
haha!...