Re: good dating/ bad marriage
Well as i m also gonna be going through this transition. I can say that expectations changes. Every relationship commes with responsibility and expectation.. Lets say when you pick your GF/BF you look for the best potential friend and mate, things you have in common and all. and you expectations usually are that she/he loves you, spends time with you and understand you. Yet when you are married to that same person, you expectation increase to can he/she be a good parent? how much they make? how are their living styles(messy, clean freak) and how they act with your family.
It is possible that some one could be a good mate and understand you and they would pass for gf/bf yet not a good parent or disrespects family or even have a messy lifestyle.
Both people need to realize this that their relationship is going to a next level and be open to high expectations n more responsibility.
and to tell you the truth after marrriage things arent that sweett lubby dubby anymore so thats another change which makes some people believe that he/she is not in love with me anymore....