It seems like when we’re younger, in our teens and such, there’s a clear line between the “good” girl and the “bad” girl…but as we grow up, get educated, work, get life experience, get married, have children, raise families etc…the divide between a “good” and “bad” woman gets lesser and lesser.
Based on your observations and experiences…do you people think this is true?
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I dont get it lol?
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Meaning, does life experience blur that line between being a "good" and "bad" girl?
Meaning, does life experience blur that line between being a "good" and "bad" girl?
Maybe.
Good in a bad way or bad in a good way? ;)
In reality, good stays good and bad as it is. And many of us know what is bad and what is good.
However we just get relaxed and more understanding of life in general as we grow up.
Also since the younger age is no longer there, we start making our own decisions as to what level of good is acceptable and where the line REALLY needs to be drawn as opposed to what our parents or teachers like us to learn at early age.
We also become more brave in accepting bad to a certain extent.
P.S. Did not want to talk specifically about good or bad 'girl' concept.
Meaning, does life experience blur that line between being a "good" and "bad" girl?
I believe as you grow older, the lines do blur, not only regarding "girls" but in general. When you're younger, your parents explain the concept of "good" and "bad" in very basic ways. "Stealing is bad." "Killing is bad." These examples don't include exceptions because kids won't be able to grasp them.
As you grow older, learn more about the world around you, you find that "stealing" is not so bad when you are living in poverty and have to feed your family. That "killing" can be justified as capital punishment.
Also, what constitutes "good" and "bad" differs from culture to culture. It's an interesting question.
I believe as you grow older, the lines do blur. When you're younger, your parents explain the concept of "good" and "bad" in very basic ways. "Stealing is bad." "Killing is bad." These examples don't include exceptions because kids won't be able to grasp them.
As you grow older, learn more about the world around you, you find that **"stealing" is not so bad when you are living in poverty **and have to feed your family. That "killing" can be justified as capital punishment.
Also, what constitutes "good" and "bad" differs from culture to culture. It's an interesting question.
Really? excuse for stealing is poverty? Anyhow it is off topic. :)
Okay, I overlooked the "girls" part in the OP's post. I dunno what's wrong with me, I've been omitting words from my reading today. Anyhow in my previous post, I was looking at the lines of good and bad from a general perspective and i feel that it's still applicable even when confined to "girls."
Yes, I still think that the lines of "good" and "bad" can blur (even in regards to girls) as you grow older. Your understanding of the world and experiences may allow for "accommodations and exceptions" that your upbringing did not account for. Maybe not all lines will blur, but some may. And you have to take culture into account here as well. And perhaps more blurring can take place when you're living in a country where the dominant culture is different from your own.
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There are good, bad, ugly and pichlee
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I don't think the line between being a good girl and a bad girl blurs. Its just that you get more opportunities to be a bad girl as you grow older. And human mind, being a kutti cheez, as it matures you learn to justify 'bad' things to your conscience, hence fooling yourself into believing that you are still a good girl. I think.
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Its just that as you grow you see that every individual has Some or the other Good qualities in him/her as well as Some bad qualities.
I don't think the line between being a good girl and a bad girl blurs. Its just that you get more opportunities to be a bad girl as you grow older. And human mind, being a kutti cheez, as it matures you learn to justify 'bad' things to your conscience, hence fooling yourself into believing that you are still a good girl. I think.
sadly, i kind of agree with this :/
I don't think the line between being a good girl and a bad girl blurs. Its just that you get more opportunities to be a bad girl as you grow older. And human mind, being a kutti cheez, as it matures you learn to justify 'bad' things to your conscience, hence fooling yourself into believing that you are still a good girl. I think.
lol "kutti cheez", I do agree though.
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when you're a kid...good and bad are black and white. when you grow up, and see how the world really functions, everything blurs, and things turn shades of grey. there are ofcourse some things that always stay black and white, but the rest is just fluid and mobile. definitions lose their meaning.
The lines do not blur.....we may have reasons/excuses not to follow it as we grow older.
It seems like when we're younger, in our teens and such, there's a clear line between the "good" girl and the "bad" girl....but as we grow up, get educated, work, get life experience, get married, have children, raise families etc....the divide between a "good" and "bad" woman gets lesser and lesser.
Based on your observations and experiences....do you people think this is true?
Well there are good girls and there are not so good girls, when they are little.
By keeping their way they both get their ways so much apart that when they grow up they practically live in different worlds.
So no surprise if you don't see them.
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elaborate plz
It seems like when we're younger, in our teens and such, there's a clear line between the "good" girl and the "bad" girl....but as we grow up, get educated, work, get life experience, get married, have children, raise families etc....the divide between a "good" and "bad" woman gets lesser and lesser.
Based on your observations and experiences....do you people think this is true?
To lessen confusion, our parents teach us black and white. Good girl and bad girl are black and white.
As we grow older...black and white tend to develop an area of grey in the middle. Why? Because our vast experiences in life teach us its not that easy. Buying a home...interest is haram isnt it? But most Muslims own homes and take out loans to pay for them. Are we bad Muslims now because we pay interest?
appointment ly ker aaye please.
call BBQ for appointments.
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Monk 
that was genuine post 
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nai, theres always a clear line between a good girl and a bad girl.
i hate a pervy boy as much as a pery uncle who cheats on his wife.