Re: GOLDDIGGERS
moms just want their daughters to be financially secure. they want them to enjoy the finer things in life. perhaps they think money makes a person happy....and yea for some it does.
like the saying goes....."love wont pay the bills"....it's true. however there is much more to life then money...other things should be taken into consideration when looking for a partner for your daughter.....not just his bank account.
Re: GOLDDIGGERS
That is true when you have money.
Re: GOLDDIGGERS
it's not like middle class people don't have money!
i mean it's understable to want your daughter to marry a man with decent job and enough money to pay bills....but it doesn't mean he has to be RICH.
i prefer a guy with little salary but a big heart, over a guy with a big salary but a small brain
Re: GOLDDIGGERS
Normally salary should be proportional to brain size (however, not necessarily the other way round).
I agree. I didn't mean having money to be filthy rich.
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Money is only important to people who never had any in the first place or have it now but there mentality has still not changed.
Re: GOLDDIGGERS
true to an extent , those run after money who never had it or are new to it .
Re: GOLDDIGGERS
If that were true there wouldn't have been any Hiltons, Hashwanis, Tatas or other empires in this world. Mostly, money is not important to those people who don't have to earn it themselves.
Re: GOLDDIGGERS
As a general rule of thumb, Love doesnt keep you fed, watered or too happy. Think of all the heartbreak that comes with intense emotional investment - o and before you go "hatin" on mothers that want the best for their children feel free to pay the bills, get a mortgage, dine out and still be dressed as well as you were the month afore.
I think in the real world where most "adults" live, they call it pragmatism. Also, there are women genuinely attracted to guys with money. Some are attracted to guys with strong jaws, some to the power that financial security brings - you (in my humble opinion) are not qualified to judge whether that is a good thing or a bad thing. - And lets face it folks, we all get who we deserve.
Don't shoot the messenger.
Re: GOLDDIGGERS
Why do people assume that all doctors and lawyers are rich? This isnt always the case.
Re: GOLDDIGGERS
hitchki,
Khala jaan aap kee betyoon kee shadi ho gaee? :)
In a real world one must keep in mind that man/boy should be able to make sure that his wife/family has all what is needed to spend a normal (not like filthy rich neither like a pauper's) life. So a guy with adequate income & reasonable education can do that, running after doctors or lawyers just they earn more is "greed".
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Khala jaan aap kee betyoon kee shadi ho gaee? :)
In a real world one must keep in mind that man/boy should be able to make sure that his wife/family has all what is needed to spend a normal (not like filthy rich neither like a pauper's) life. So a guy with adequate income & reasonable education can do that, running after doctors or lawyers just they earn more is "greed".
You really want to be working with personal attacks kid? Ive got all night - and a decade of lectures that I am oh so tempted to miss.
Get back to me.