i think u shud tell ur in laws to give u the real set, and that u will get an exact replica made as an artificial set...its very easy to get fake sets made off from real ones, and believe me u cant tell the difference except for the weight!!! it will cost u a good 20k but at least u can tell ur in laws that u will cherish the set as ur "shaadi gift from their side"...and will look back fondly on the memories - and the set!!!