I think it is perfectly fine for both genders to ask for highly educated people to get married to. There isn't anything about being gold digger or whatever in this. When we marry a career oriented person, we do sacrifice a lot in it ourselves in regard to time, family and all that. Asking for a financially strong spouse is okay as long as you are willing to build everything with them and not ask for jahiz or the guy should have a huge house, big car at a begining of his career. If you are willing to sacrifice and build everything with your career oriented, highly educated, extermely well paid spouse then why not. His/her career or financial stability shouldn't be the only reason though of marrying that person.