Going to an ex's wedding

[Sehrysh]

Re: Going to an ex’s wedding

@Paheli00

This doesn’t make sense. If you were invilved with the ex during a formal rishta talk…that means your parents/ex’s parents and other possible family members are aware of it. And if there is no way to get out going to the wedding…and in fact, the ex is marrying a close family member…then sooner or later, the current spouse WILL find out about the past. In this scenario, you don’t have a choice as to whether or not your spouse finds out. B/C if you don’t tell him/her…sooner or later…one of your loving desi family members will.

It is possible. I just threw the rishta scenario in to legitimize it for the conservative people who haww-hayee over dating.

But even in a rishta talk, maybe future MIL was initially keen and then when her son/daughter went gaga over the girl/guy, she cancelled the rishta because she was afraid of losing her child. But only your own and your ex’s immediate family know about the failed rishta.