Going to an ex's wedding

[Paheli00]

Re: Going to an ex’s wedding

@Sehrysh

The ex is better-looking, more educated, funnier than your current spouse and your current spouse is a bit of the suspicious/jeaous type who hates to hear about there having been anyone in your life before they entered it.

Would this make a difference in whether you would tell your spouse about the ex and go to the wedding. Oh, and let’s make it a mandatory. The girl/guy your ex is marrying is your current spouse’s cousin - so absolutely no getting out of this wedding invite.

This doesn’t make sense. If you were invilved with the ex during a formal rishta talk…that means your parents/ex’s parents and other possible family members are aware of it. And if there is no way to get out going to the wedding…and in fact, the ex is marrying a close family member…then sooner or later, the current spouse WILL find out about the past. In this scenario, you don’t have a choice as to whether or not your spouse finds out. B/C if you don’t tell him/her…sooner or later…one of your loving desi family members will.