Yup…do read my early posts on this topic…the 3rd reply and 4th one…Thank you, have a nice gupshup.
Sufii…how is this…lol
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Ye nassle faraanghi ye naamoon ke musalmaan
Kaanoon ko pakarta hia innain dekh kar sheitan
HARooN
HARooN>>>Chorr chori se jaye…haira-pehrii se na jaye<<< 
sounds like a nice poem describing most american/western pakis but can you please translate that in english as im not so fluent in urdu
thanks haroon
Sorry for this late reaction but i just read it (after u mentioned it.
Did i mention about my fiancee, then u must know more then i do.
Fiancee is past, i’m in chapter two now
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I’ll soon introduce her here.
hi kohal, its nice to see you.Long time you havent been around.
At what age a girl should not have playmate a boy?
If a girl over 16 has friends who are males can she alone be with them even if in public like movies,restaurant?
On the chat room or flirting love forum is it ,morally right to be free with young boys even if no one might know & there may not be contact physically ever?
What do you think it is right of a young girl to socialize with boys according to her desire?
Is it safer to stick with more friends of your own sex spl.after 16 than have nmxed sex friends or predominantly male friends?
Do you think there is a premium on girl who is more conforming to islamic rules in these matter than those girls who are defiant ,rebellious .
I don't want it to look as if i've a 1 blunt, ugly point of view or anything,
but i say,
Be a good person.
Be a good muslim.
But also be rebellous, in a good way. Get your own personality.
thats good advice
be a good person,how do you define good person?
By being virtuous.
wow! Bravo muslims, trying to make Islam work the way you guys want!! I'm sorry, but it won't change the FACT that Islam does not allow "DATING"(A WESTERNIZED WAY TO SATISFY ONES DESIRES), but someone mentioned the RIGHT way(Islamic) to approach ones "CRUSH"!
I say, lets go the Islamic way, its much better and above all ITS SAFER!
Masooma
Adab....!!
u all r saying...it's right....most of u r in west....if u take according to islam then it is even strictly prohibited to have a affair with a person u donot know...????
but tell me one thing how many people r obeying islam....just forgrt about west consider pakistan.....what do u think there people never go out for dating about 80% people do this....!!directly...indirectly...
chouri..chouri....????....!!!!!!!
u have to except this because this is truth.....????u can say compromise with these new ideas.., thought and technology....!!
but always remember don't go beyond limits and desires....???
i would like to know what means virtuous.
im serious, i would like too know all the things a person should do to be a good person.
obviously not drink alcohol and stuff but their is also other things which i would like to knowa person should do.
I THINK IF SOME GIRL ASK U OUT FOR DATE,AND U DENY,AND IF SHE IS AMERICAN,FIRST THING SHE WILL THING ABOUT U IS U R GAY.SO IF U GOTTA LIVE HAPPY LIFE, SPECIALLY IN WEST,U GOTTA ADOPT THERE CULTURE,OTHER WISE MY FRIEND U WILL BE IN BIG TROUBLE.
dear mustanadesi,
america is so messed up that even if you say you are gay people are proud of you.......watch an american chat show!!!!!!!!!!
even then i suggest you move to europe coz you can refuse girls and no questions asked.
p.s remember america is big satan.
mustanadesi,
Please lower your case. It is rude to type messages in capitals.
p.s remember america is big satan.
hain?! and muslims countries are...? angels?
dear ghalib muslim countries are not angels but at least its safe to walk out after 6 in most muslim countries.Also, no dirty posters of women and no pubs, if people do it its inddooors and majority of people safe from such evil is safe.
also in muslim countries do guys and women marry each other?????, i dont think so!!!!!!!!!!
the truth hurts doesnt it!!!!!!