Re: Going for "afsos" when someone dies
I don't think there is a need for it at all.
If I remember correctly; there is no place in our religion for this type of behavior.
Our motto is and will always be
"From Him we come and to Him we shall go"
When the Prophets(PBUH) lost his very precious son; only a silent tear leaked from his eyes.
I just pray that when I'm faced with such a situation I can follow my Prophet's (PBUH) example.