So there are often girls coming onto the forum saying they or their families are considering going bk to Pakistan to find a spouse but they’re unsure of what to do.. Those of you who did marry from Pakistan and brought your husbands over to the UK or US or wherever how did you all get on? Did you move to Pakistan straight after marriage for a while and if so did you struggle or did you find it easy to adjust or even prefer living there to being in the west? How did you get on with your inlaws and did you find there was a culture clash or you slotted in perfectly and it was no big deal? Did the reality of it all match your hopes and expectations and when your husband came to join you in your home country how did you both get on? If you could do it all again would you go down the same path and would you encourage your children to do the same? Guys who married from ‘back home’ what were your experiences? On the whole were you happy or disappointed with the outcome of it?
Re: Going back to Pakistan to find a husband or wife..
**i know someone who married a cousin and moved to Pakista. it was a smooth move for her...she has been there for the last 11-12 years but given the situation in Karachi she wants to return ... she can return with kids anytime she wants because she and her kids hold Canadian Passport while the husband doesn't. it will take time to process his application for immigration.
now she faces another dilemma. they are in their mid 30's and it'll be difficult for her husband to find a good paying professional job in Canada without Canadian Education and Experience. she has 3 kids, two of them are toddlers. it will be difficult for her to work. husband might go to the middle east and she may come to Canada with kids. let see what happens.**
Re: Going back to Pakistan to find a husband or wife..
What about for men who are being taken back/to the west to find a spouse. did anyone from middle east experience something ?