I wanted to share my experience with you guys… I fell in love with a very decent guy that he potrayed himself to be about 7years ago. He was in the family so it provided me sort of protection and security of getting married to him. Our relation lasted for almost 4yrs . The time I went through was so painful, hard, breathless, sleepless, sisak sisak ke rona, my world was over, severely hurt, hardest time someone can ever give me, and my self-esteem was low. This experience helped me get closer to Allah. I found out at the end after the breakup that he was a biggest player anybody can encounter. He cheated on his followup girlfriends, sleep around, had bad habbits like drinking and smoking, and was a biggest liar. During my hardship, I prayed alot for us but Allah did not grant him to me. Today, I am very thankful to Allah for wasting my love and emotions for him because he wasnt worthy to be treated as a king. If Allah would have heard my prayers, I would have been in tears and pain for rest of my life. For instance, a baby girl gets a shot but the pain is unbearable such as plain torture. Her young mind doesnt know about prevention of severe illness can benefit her. Similarly, God knows BEST for us so we can learn from our mistakes. I cried for this boy endlessly, but today my life is far better without him. Thank u so much Allah for your blessings because one wrong decision would have put me in a biggest misery of life.
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Throw a few MILs and SILs in the mix, polish it up and sell it to Bollywood yawn
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Allah aapko khush rakhe bomb behen.
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Pic please. I need to ascertain if your nick is indeed valid.
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BombShellBabe, it would have been better if you had created a blog entry with this instead of creating a thread, so as not to give a chance of these guys(CM & TheNoodle) to post....
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Throw a few MILs and SILs in the mix, polish it up and sell it to Bollywood yawn
What is wrong with you? Were you dropped on your head as a child?
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I think you can look at this situation in many ways. Yes, some duas that are not fulfilled in the way we want them to be......can turn out to be the huge blessings.....thus reinforcing the point that Allah knows better. However, at the same time.....I also think it's good for one to reflect over their own mistakes. I understand that one person (in this case, the boyfriend) may be more at fault......but if one willingly allows themsevles to suffer......even when they KNOW that they're in a toxic situation......that is a mistake as well. And I think it's good to reflect over why such a mistake/oversight was allowed.....what signs were you blind to or deliberately ignored....so that you're wiser about things in the future.
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I agree.. You can look at the situation in various ways. Maybe, Allah had mercy on me after seeing me scattered that he opened my eyes from blindness. Gradually, he was exposed... I swallowed all the **** with pain but I am so happyyyyy without him. Mashallah. This guy who was my world became a big lesson for me to learn from
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