You are going to make this a religious discussion but I have to clarify my point.
This is where I learn something about Islam, where did you learn it from??
Read Surah Nisa First verse!
“And God said: ‘O Mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single person (Adam) and from Him (Adam) He created his wife (Eve), and from them both He created many men and women.’” (Quran 4:1)
4:1 O mankind! Be careful of your duty to your Lord Who created you from a single soul and from it created its mate and from them twain hath spread abroad a multitude of men and women. Be careful of your duty toward Allah in Whom ye claim (your rights) of one another, and toward the wombs (that bare you). Lo! Allah hath been a watcher over you.
The hadith:
“O Muslims! I advise you to be gentle with women, for they are created from a rib, and the most crooked portion of the rib is its upper part. If you try to straighten it, it will break, and if you leave it, it will remain crooked; so I urge you to take care of the women.” (Saheeh Al-Bukhari)
Rest of your post has no strong argument. He is a male figure. You can deny it if it maked you feel good. All the words in arabic and all the words in other scripture describe him as a male figure.
Some kind of women lib you follow..!! I guess it is not a good day for your women lib doctrine you follow!! 