Again, where are you learning Islam from? No, a female was not born OUT of the male body. That is Christian theology, not Islamic.
Secondly, a “male figure” means you are perscribing a gender to Him. His characteristics are in no way exclusively male.
We use “He” and “Him”, because religion over time was dominated by men, and so they chose to use gender specific words to describe God. I don’t think the terms used to describe God in the Quran are gender specific in the original Arabic, though. Not sure about that, but for sure the doctrine is that He is genderless, so I dont see what you mean by “male figure”. If you are saying He is a male figure, then you are saying He is male.