(Quoted by Nutwer): The urge is so high, it dominates you.
some men find it hard to concentrate the most important and crucial things on career, studies, life that they are expected to by others.
There are men who are mature, strong, and have the discipline and self-control to attend to their careers, families, and other responsibilities without letting their sexual urges overwhelm them to the point of making a mockery of themselves. There are men who have a BUSIER career and life than you.....and they are in more control.
SOME men......such as yourself.......might be too weak and immature. Don't stereotype ALL the men as being like this.....by saying "this is how WE are, bla bla bla."
and look also at the social problems prone from those that loose it.'STDS, CHEATING WIFE/GF, HURTBREAKS, DEPRESSION, RUINED COUPLES AND FAMILIES, ETC ETC.
If you already KNOW about all the negative consequences of letting your sexual urges get the better of you, then you should also KNOW that the common sense thing would be to exercise some self-control. Unless you wish to welcome the STDS, CHEATING, DEPRESSION, etc into your own life.
I mean we are men, the stronger, more capable sex.
Based on this thread.....you give the impression of being neither strong nor capable.
Nevertheless, consistancy and perserverance, surely should reward perfect resistance.
When one whines and complains too much.....the "consistancy" and "perseverance" lose their value.