RedVelvet, or Chipkali, I would say, that was a rather uncalled for and unnecesery connotation.
Although amir_pindi, seems like a right guy to contact.
neverthelless, your post radiates wisdom. That seems like a good and comprehensive answer, yeah we are men and we should appraise and concentrate on the positives of being men..they are lots.
BUT the prob im whinging about, is not just having a higher than nessecery urge, but its the problems and issue it causes in our life and progress towards what we are trying to and should be achieving as men.
The urge is so high, it dominates you.
some men find it hard to concentrate the most important and crucial things on career, studies, life that they are expected to by others.
and look also at the social problems prone from those that loose it.
'STDS, CHEATING WIFE/GF, HURTBREAKS, DEPRESSION, RUINED COUPLES AND FAMILIES, ETC ETC.
And for the ones of us, who live busy lives, even if you get control of it at time,s you get setback at times again primely cos of the sudden and unavoideble all these half clothed mercilless bloody shayteens everywhere!
I mean this SUMMER REALLY AFFECTS these goris doesnt it!
I mean we are men, the stronger, more capable sex. We should be able to likewise focus on our work and do what is important.
So, It is such a bloody shame and deflator that, us 'STRONG' men cant help resist this small thing of attraction.
Nevertheless, consistancy and perserverance, surely should reward perfect resistance.
and de truth is we dnt even really need girls anyway rite. just for one thing we have to put up with all thier silly nakarays, burdens, tantrums.
we just get one main benefit from girls and they just get so many.
i mean if we were to be able to think rationally, we would realise they arnt even worth it.