Re: giving up trust
We can all say what we should do but what we end up doing normally end up being something completely different...
Matters of the heart are never rational...I can say to you that being betrayed is horrible bla bla and ill never forgive but if its someone you love and care for then you normally end up forgiving...
I have never loved any girl iv met so dealing with betrayal isnt so hard for me...and i can easily not forgive...forget and move on to the next one...but for a my best friend he forgave his girlfriend when she cheated because he loves his girlfriend...a close friend of mine has cheated on his girlfriend but she forgave him because she loves him...
I can stand on the outside and rationally argue that they are stupid but love makes you do things that you know you shouldnt do...
The worst iv seen is a girl who gets beaten by her boyfriend...if you were to ask her beforehand if she would forgive him if he did something like that she would obviously say no...say no but after being put in the situation shes forgiving him and not following any advice she is given...
Love can be your worst enemy at times...life is so much easier without it...
I heard a proverb when i was young 'When the heart acts the body is its slave'...so whatever advice anyone gives you is useless cos feelings will always win over ration...