Re: giving milk to groom
hahaha, the memories! 
10 yrs ago at sister1’s wedding we got $500.00. BIL may have given us a grand were it not for his manhoos friends.
sister2’s wedding we got a grand 
negotiate upfront I would say so both sides have an idea of what to expect. not to an exact figure but a rough idea so you know how much he can afford and he has some idea of what to expect too. This wedding we went to the sisters asked for a grand per sis which would be 3 grands, the guys side was totally shocked 
they were like itnay tau doolhay ko beych kar bhi nahi millainge hahahha.