girlzz.. have u had this prob?

system · November 27, 2010, 1:35am

Re: girlzz.. have u had this prob?

Sometimes I think you’re not ready for marriage and maybe you need to take a break from the issue and come back to it at a later point. You first wanted to marry a guy whose family you had intense hatred for (not the most practical decision) and many of your threads read like this: “What would you do if there’s a guy…what would you do if there are two guys…what would you do if one guy is like this and the other guy is like that…what if the guy is cool and his family is loathsome?” Do you even feel ready for marriage or do you feel compelled to be married for some reason or the other? I understand that indecisiveness in making a life-altering decision is natural, but maybe consider the frequency of the indecisiveness and take a break to figure out what you want in life as opposed to what you want between two guys.

As far as the bad boy is concerned, you might “click” with him for the few hours that you hang out with him, but if you also see that there are “warning signs” that will affect a marriage in a long-term way, then proceed with caution. You won’t really know what the guy is really unlike until you’re actually living under the same roof with him. It’s important to feel compatible with the other person, but also consider if the personality is conducive to developing a happy and successful marriage in the long run.

I like you, Magic 8 Ball!