EVERY1 is FOB somewhere , someplace...
so wats the prob?
even the ppl of us of a were fobs once.
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*Originally posted by Aishaaa1: *
well what about hot bitchy abcd's? You would be surprised, stupid perv (lussi)
Marrying a fob has nothing to do with living with inlaws, and has nothing to do with desi standards. "Fob" is just the way u speak, carry urself, and dress. Like green silk shirts with silver chains hanging down the side, pretending to smoke a blunt. Fobs are not on the same wavelength as normal people.
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Hmmm @ definition of FOB’s (dress, lingo, "carry urself")
So you mean wearing pants which are half way down to hips and showing "Tommy" tag on the under-wear counts as "normal dressing" and if one don’t swear F*** word in American accent in each sentence then he is incompetent and if he don't dance with girls in the club he is not “carrying himself”.
If this is all true then I am a FOB, any ABCD willing to marry me? :)
Dude Two Thumbs UP :k: :k:… I don’t see even single reply in response to your sweet answer (except those who agreed with you). Its pretty sad that some people just jump into discussions and when someone puts a tape on their mouth they don’t even bother to remove it. Common ladies speak up? What happend i read so many wrong things about fobs on this thread somebody got to answer his thread? My 2 cents if you ask me, none of us wouldn’t be here if our FOB parents weren’t here so. Who ever says it’s SO LOW it’s This and that you are directly commenting your parents and forefathers. Just because we were brought here and born here does not make us any superior to any of those who recently came here.
How you define a FOB ? A person who is living here commenting on other persons “moral” and "way of talking”? is that it ?How would you feel when your parents who still can’t speak English, with American accent, and I come up on your face telling you, YOUR PARENTS ARE FOBS HAHAHAHAHA.. Pathetic Just pathetic, Just cuz we were born here raised here it gives us the right to call other people fobs. ?
-Salman
this will help .. 
Women were mistreated in every culture in old days. Donot see the point of discriminating our culture.
Calm down Salman, if you tell me my parents are FOBS, i will say no they are not. (Note from Mod: You can make your point across without insulting others personally as well) I never said there was anything WRONG with being a fob..i just said they smell, well HELL dont we all smell...goody goody gumdrops
^^ u really need to grow up n look beyond the physical traits.. human nature is much more intricate than a green shirt and a silver chain hangin on a side..
ok yeah, thanx for the support man. but lets get one thing straight here, I AIN’T A HE!!! I’M A SHE!!! i dunno why the name misleads people, but I’m a girl, and I’m soooooooooo tired of saying it to the guppies 
ok sorry, i know it’s n ot ur fault but i had to take it out on someone, u just got lucky. oh and yeah, he does have a point, no one replied to my post 
don’t worry girls u can give ur opinions, I’m not as scary and bitchy as I sound, or am I? 
devilicious, like u dont care about looks. First impressions are the last. Are you saying u dont care about looks? Human nature is not the first thing I notice in a man, the first thing i notice is their rotting brown teeth from excessive amounts of pan, ok.
(Note from Mod: Personal insults against other members defeat the pupose of healthy discussion)
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*Originally posted by Aishaaa1: *
devilicious, like u dont care about looks. First impressions are the last. Are you saying u dont care about looks? Human nature is not the first thing I notice in a man, the first thing i notice is their rotting brown teeth from excessive amounts of pan, ok.
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ok well on a more serious note now, what this girl is saying here, is somewhat along the lines of what i used to think a while back. but I for sure know now, that jokes apart, looks don't matter. because it's what Allah thallah made( and I'm not talking about their sense of style). maybe bad teeth were in the genes. sure I know ALlah might have made some things better than others, but no one is ugly, thats the point. Cuz they r all Allah's creation. And Allah forbid, but he could just make the model looking husbad that u married, into that pan chewing substance in no time, and show u that this kinda stuff is just temporary. if u marry someone who isn't all that, who knows he could look like a million dollars tommorrow. so Aishaaa1 ji maybe u would rather marry someone who has rotting brown stuff in his head rather than his teeth, because well u obviously don't know what it feels like to have ne thing in urs at all. but as for the rest of us who have a brain, and use it, we learn that there is more to a person than his looks, and sense of style, which can all be easily changed. now have u learned ur lesson for today little girl? good.... u can now run along and tell ur mommy that u know two things now.
1. the way to ur special ed bus. and
2. that u being nasty doesn't matter after all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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*Originally posted by suroor_ca02: *
hmm fob or no fob, as long as he respects me, understands me, is decent and sharif, thats what important to me.
i have seen many fobs who act jahil and also guyz who r born n raised abroad acting like parhay likhay jahil. i see no difference between them.
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I totally agree :)
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*Originally posted by Aishaaa1: *
devilicious, like u dont care about looks. First impressions are the last. Are you saying u dont care about looks? Human nature is not the first thing I notice in a man, the first thing i notice is their rotting brown teeth from excessive amounts of pan, ok.
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actually.. i dont care bout look.. On the contrary i seriously dont understand how ppl can jus look at some one (brown teeth for an example) an assume what kinda person they r.. so what if they brown teeth from paan , or the type of clothes they wear.. Im the one paying for them so i shouldnt care what they do.. ITS their LIFE.. let them live the way they want to.. if they wanna dress a certain way, act a certain way.. let them!!! who died an made me the boss of what ppl should n shouldnt wear!! therefore, i look at ppl, but i dont assume what kinda person they r till i kno them.. if i dont kno some1 well enuf.. for me all they r is SOMEONE