oh no! so the guy has to wait till the first night is over? to find out if she will ever leave him? lol
you know something - if the girl has NOT seen any before, then she has nothing to compare it to. so how the hell would she even complain?
I think this is where Islam plays a big role: In Islam all of the meetings/dating prior to marriage is prohibited.
If the girl has experience, and that too a good experience, then she is bound to compare and be unsatisfied thereafter.
So if the original poster is worried, then let's pray he finds an inexperienced girl. lol
First of all Ewwww to this thread some replies.
How would a girl know without marriage?
After marriage I totally agree with NJMasti how could an unexperienced girl will now what is wrong or right. She must have to see at least one before to compare to.
I'm sure the girls who goes away after first night must be experienced. Experienced person can decide only in one shot.
NJMasti exactly I know one of my relative was too fool she never seen, think or talk about these stuff before her life got a husband who could even perform that night even for few months she thought its all normal. She didn't understand anything. She still is living with him. When her mother investigated a lot then she told a few things then they asked her to leave but she didn't leave him. She even got better rishta after some close relative known the problem but she didn't leave her parents asked her what you want to do? She said I want to stay with him.
It's been dacades she still is living with him. Now she regrats a lot but doesn't have himmat to leave him. Her family members do afsos on her life. But they do not know enough.
Now what she can complain to the parents that now she can't live like that. She want to leave him but what she will tell to the ppl she is leaving him for the thing she didn't even talk about any dirty joke or listen even to her friends.
I would suggest It matters a lot forget about all perfect things. after sometimes or some years you willl become desperate house wife and you could ask anyone to help you. Your only option is to just leave him and marry someone.
The only thing which make relationship to go smoothly from both is the .... you the what I mean.