Girls ,Would you marry a man?

[Afridi786]

@Iconoclast

Did his wife bad mouth me, thinking that i may tell him something about her?

That's what women do.

[AnGeL_EyEs]

@Iconoclast

Angel

I am not at all saying that what he did was right. I am not endorsing his deeds at all.

I am just pointing out that lot of people are saying that he is jackass, or retard or stupid or whatever. But its easier said than done.

I am sure if they were in his place they might not have had the courage to take it.

ok thanks for the clarification...I misunderstood the point you were trying to make. Seemed to me that you were saying that the actions he took were right.

I think now we are on the same page.

[Iconoclast]

@Afridi786

That's what women do.

Did you have a similay experience.

[maverick123]

If they had told me about the relathioship before the engagement and if they both had moved on then I wouldnt have cared. BUT I would be extremely hurt finding out about their relationship after engagement and would definitely consider calling off the engagement!

[Lusi]

@Iconoclast

Okay girls now consider this guy
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/290574-friend-got-divorced-he-found-out-his-wife-had-history.html

whom you all called retard etc,

if you can’t marry someone who had an affair with your sister in past, wouldn’t it be difficult for a man to be married to a girl who had slept with this guy’s friend in the past?

The first senario you presented was diffrent then the one above. If I am married to a guy and I found out that he had an affair in past, I can let it go analysing how our relationship is now. If is keeps on having affairs while he is married to me then I can’t.

If before getting engaged if I find out that he was in a relationship and that too with my sister is completely a different scenario. I think I will talk with my family and the guy and see what I can do about this whole ugly situation. Again, I won’t make any emotional decision in haste.

[sali786]

no wayy im sorry id break all terms with the guy if i found out he had an affair with my sister-- and if my sister didnt tell me b4 i was to b engaged and i find out later then i wuld realli b upset at her too- but yeh i cant marry sumone whos been with a person I KNOW-- im a realli jealous type of girl...

[glamorous]

Re: Girls ,Would you marry a man?

hell no
i would never marry that person

[shab-e-firaq]

Re: Girls ,Would you marry a man?

nahh there's plenty other fish in the sea.....

[Iconoclast]

Re: Girls ,Would you marry a man?

Thank You girls for response.

I think i have made my point.

[soniya83]

Re: Girls ,Would you marry a man?

I would definitly ask my sister and the guy to tell me exactly wat went on beteem them and not hide ANYTHING. i would for sure be ticked off at my sister at least for not telling me earlier abt the whole thing (unless she is the one who u found out from in the first place). Like someone said, if it was just a crush or in pk just txting and given that I LOVE that guy, I would marry him. (but honestly, even then its hard for me cuz it would bother me if i ever get to think abt it even if its once in a blue moon) unless u love the guy to DEATH.

but if it was a more serious relationship where girl was promised or lead on or something of that nature including being physically close. THATS IT. I am saying good bye to the guy !!!!!

[jalebi121]

@Iconoclast

Hypothetical situation.

You find a very nice man who suits your requirement for a husband. You are engaged, then you discover that he had an affair with your sister before your engagement.

Would you marry him?

HELLL NO...if there was any emotional entanglement before you guys got together, then it could be activated again when your sister is in close proximity. If it was just a formal thing, like he visited for chai and they never had a thing for each other, i would be cool with it. but consult with your sis first before you fall for him, you don't want her to feel awkward later on.