Re: girls-would you let your husband marry again or divorce him?
^That’s exactly what I meant. For those women who think that they’ll feel much better if they can manage to convince or pressure their husbands into remaining monogamous…they’d STILL have to deal with the emotional and psychological “trauma” (for lack of a better word) of his former wish. I don’t think it’s something that’s easy to overcome. Your husband could still live under the same roof as you…but to constantly wonder if you’re not good enough or what he might be thinking of, etc…can take a toll on you.
And if kids are involved (especially if they’re young)…it can complicate things. And sometimes one might even end up handling an unpleasant situation much differently (if it were to occur) than they imagined. Things are not always so simple.
I believe I’d leave him as well.