i agree that there isnt anyone like our Prophet SAW and its not a comparable example.. But im assuming there are people out there who live happily and fairly in a polygomous marriage.. Theres a couple in my area the man has been married to both women for years both have kids they live next door to each other seem like a very strong family unit.. With regards to OP’s q i wouldnt want to be number 2 and nor would i like to be the wife in the situation where her husband is saying hel marry again.. I wouldnt be able to cope with not having my partner with me always