Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
i said nothing of the sort
but you did 
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
When I was in college and started working part time and looking for work, my mother warned me to never ever ever go on lunch dates with male bosses/male coworkers, âjaise TV aur movies mein hota.â 
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
theorist, are you a closet molvi? : p
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
Agreed.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
Do you realize this is sheer hypocrisy.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
Do you realize youâre arguing with a woman? 
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
The chances are, your husband wonât be telling you anything if heâs having nice, friendly, one to one conversations with his female co-worker with bit of lunch of involved.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
He tells me everything.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
Of course not. Working with the other sex is fine, but socializing or lunching togetherâŚsorry not done in my book. Because as someone else already said, just because someone is married, this wouldnât stop them from being attracted to the other sex. Therefore one shouldnât put oneself in situations where there is a risk of being attracted to someone else. I meanâŚif itâs a group lunch then itâs fine. But why do a man and woman have to go for lunch alone?
There is a very good reason we are told that when a man and women are alone, devil is also there.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
No, not really.. Every relationship is different. I and my husband have been together for almost 8 years. We pretty much grew up knowing each other. He and I never dated other people. Honestly, we donât know what itâs like to go out on a date with another person. Why would I then let my man have lunch with another woman and possibly introduce him to the world of dating. Yes, we both are a little insecure when it comes to this. Deep down I know he will never fall for another woman and he knows I wonât fall for another guy. Why would I risk what I have for a stupid lunch? I just know itâs not okay with him and I respect him enough to refuse to go on lunch with another dude at work. I work with ALL men. They ask me every damn day to have lunch with them. I donât! Do I want to? Sometimes and I have no hidden motives to do so but I still donât
I am only speaking from my perspective. I am not passing fatwas here and there for everyone.
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Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
I dont think she will âŚoh but wait a min ⌠
why does she make sure that she has packed home made lunch for me every single dayâŚI thought its because she loves me 
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
on serious note, its depends on dynamics, frequency, time-spent and the woman. Its not the matter of trust or no trust. If its pre-planned, cozy restaurant lunches, time and time again then even drop of water falling continuously on stone breaks it eh?
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
I am quite surprised at the answers - I never really thought there was anything wrong with lunch with guy colleagues, and tbh my lunches are social, not work-related. We play catch up on each otherâs lives - I know all about their partner/wife, kids, homes, travel plans and they catch up on the details of my life. As someone else pointed out, it goes back to intention and trust.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
Next time she pack a lunch tell her you will be rebooting today , so no lunch. Points out to your signature.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
u have to put on wifeâs boots to understand this
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
Women actually need not worry about this bcos even though their husbands spend time with better looking female coworkers; those women might not even take a crap on their husbands.
a man, on the other hand, needs to be worried if his wife has male co-workers who are better looking than himself. a woman can easily have affairs with goodlooking men at the workplace.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
You have some crazy and twisted ideas.
Man or a woman, anyone could slip. In fact, women are less obsessed with looks.
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
i dont know about that. no one does. But i do know that its far more important for a man to be goodlooking in order to attract women for affairs and sexual relationships, than the other way round. kinda paradoxical aint it⌠ie, if we assume you are correct ?
Re: Girls, would U be ok with Ur hubby having a work lunch alone with a woman coworke
I think most women look for security and comfort, not just looks. But thatâs probably just my opinion.