Re: girls working
^ my dear, there are plenty of double standard holding people - in the society and they know what they are all about. empty people frigid in their quick sand of manipulating minds for other peoples' daughters.
that's all.
in any event, that is why women must correct women, first. and teach the men in their lives, to be sensitive and kind if a woman wants to work. it is her right to. God did not proscribe on men's foreheads that make X amount fo money and bring it home, and for women, to cook, clean, and have babies and not work using their education to honorably earn money and also to support their families.
it is cooked up to keep women immobile and out of work to exploit them and to burden them into a guilt trip together with leaving all the room for mankind to feel superior since it makes it happen! --> bring money home, sustain woman kind and thence has all God given right to bid mom, sister, daughter, and wife at his bidding.
this is oen perspective. the other is, work of women and men should be taken as an equal right to have own professions and make a career to support the family and be of pride for leaving a legacy of work behind and having a literate mind, an open mind, and with values and sense of responsibility - make the best of working and family-woman status, nobly and with dedication. if you think of women, such women are better prepared and more giving off of themselves to their spouses.
best,
Dushwari