So what’s your opinion of girls who use guys to pay their way and then move on to their next target? Will she make a good wife to some unlucky schmuck one day?
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Unlucky followed by calling the guy a shmuck?
If players could become good husbands, no reason a woman cant become a good wife to someone. But then like some players exist that never tend to change and continue with their antics, its obvious you have a fair share of them gold digging khawateen who continue to do the same.
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why is he a schmuck? if he's dumb enough to not see through the golddigging ways (which btw..is a very specific type) he deserves what he gets.
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do these girls really exist as far as average guys are concerned? or are they the end result of guys trying to buy an uninterested girl's affection with big money and gifts? maybe a little of both.
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There are actually sites dedicated to Sugar Daddies. Basically the girls spend time with and sex may or may not be involved but the guys reimburse by paying them or paying for their college tuition or whatever the heck the girl wants. It’s basically a glorified hooker behavior. 
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Gold diggers attract sugar daddies and vice versa. I think they both equally deserve each other. Sugar daddies LOVE being sugar daddies because they can afford to and do not mind admitting it. Gold diggers know darn well where to find their next sugar daddy. They are charming, attractive and seductive. As far as getting marriage is concerned, once she has lived the high life, she will never settle for the average Joe. There might be some exceptions. The thing is they don't feel bad about their behavior. They are narcissist and sugar daddies are such enablers.
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There’s no such thing as a ‘sugar daddy’!!!
I’ve been paying for me own shoes for years. 
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do these girls really exist as far as average guys are concerned? or are they the end result of guys trying to buy an uninterested girl's affection with big money and gifts? maybe a little of both.
This.. Real life isn't a movie. Makes me think of that one Lindsay Lohan movie though.. The gold digger was a total babe.
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Can’t pay, but you can still call me daddy 
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Guys with moola are not dumb , as we think they are .
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Before daddy supposedly comes sweetness.
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Sugar daddies LOVE being sugar daddies because they can afford to and do not mind admitting it.
^ This. A man who is "fooled" into spending money on a gold digger is not a "sugar daddy". He's just gullible. A TRUE Sugar Daddy knows what he is. Most sugar daddies didn't become rich by being stupid.
They know they have money and they're acutely aware of the fact that the woman with them is after their money. They're not stupid enough to think that the woman is "in love" and vice versa...they're not "in love" either. Most sugar daddies enjoy the company of young, gorgeous women...and don't mind shelling out $$$ to get it. It's a business contract.
Oh...and when a true sugar daddy does tie to the knot....there are detailed prenups involved(this is generally the case with most rich men...and by rich...I mean people worth millions) . Yes we've all heard of famous cases where the men didn't get one...but that's not the norm. As I mentioned earlier....most sugar daddies are self-made, and they didn't get to where they are by being stupid.
And in the marriages that I'm personally aware of where a much younger woman is married to a older super rich man.....yes, the wives are "good wives" b/c the men make it crystal clear what their expectations are. And when it comes to marriages.....I believe the only person who can judge whether or not the wife is "good" is the husband.
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I think they both play their part well and that makes the relationship rewarding for both parties.
A sugar daddy knows the hot little number on his arm isn't there because of his winning personality.
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The exchange of sexuality for money/security … sounds like many Guppans’ definition of marriage, going by most threads on Lifestyle. Virginity/sex are commodities at the end of the day, i.e. they’re traded for a price. This being especially true when women are economic dependents - sex and progeny in return for financial and physical security, etc. I’m reminded of Bernard Shaw’s rants against the institution itself, some of which I find hilarious because they’re, well, true … “the difference between marriage and prostitution is the difference between trade unionism and unorganized casual labor.”
Whether it’s a gold-digging woman or a sex-seeking man or a hedge fund parasite on Wall Street, we’re all ‘prostitutes’ bartering services, fidelity, dreams, and consciences as we see fit.
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The exchange of sexuality for money/security ... sounds like many Guppans' definition of marriage, going by most threads on Lifestyle. Virginity/sex are commodities at the end of the day, i.e. they're traded for a price. This being especially true when women are economic dependents - sex and progeny in return for financial and physical security, etc. I'm reminded of Bernard Shaw's rants against the institution itself, some of which I find hilarious because they're, well, true ... "the difference between marriage and prostitution is the difference between trade unionism and unorganized casual labor."
Whether it's a gold-digging woman or a sex-seeking man or a hedge fund parasite on Wall Street, we're all 'prostitutes' bartering services, fidelity, dreams, and consciences as we see fit.
^ Yoda? Heal me oh mighty one!
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when a guy feels that he has to buy a womans affection, that he has to put constant effort to 'court' her, it means he is making up for the lack of desirability..some inadequacy.
conversely, if a woman requires of a man to** bring something else to the table**, when a mans presence, his looks, his demeanour, and sex is not enough to keep her interested then she is not attracted to him at all.
some men are very consciously aware of the cringe worthy feeling that they are a mere utility to a woman.and easily sense when a woman has an agenda. its not just about buying gifts, expensive dinners or doing favors. there are many subtle aspects.
other men know they are undesirable or want women they dont really deserve in the fist place (looks wise) and so they have to bring something else to the table. they are totally ok with such relationships.
marriage in our society, in the overwhelming majority of the cases is an arrangement where a man has to** bring something else to the table.**
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So what's your opinion of girls who use guys to pay their way and then move on to their next target? Will she make a good wife to some unlucky schmuck one day?
they make great wives.
marriage itself is nothing but an economic arrangement and a cultural obligation for most women.
do you think women marry because they need sex and intimacy ?
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I know of a couple of girls who signed up to one of those sugar daddy sites and actually specified a 'wage' of at least £10k a month.. they would interview each guy before deciding which one they wanted..
(This thread also made me think of Maria Fowler from TOWIE and her new 'bf')
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What if you're 'high maintenance' (as in like nice things) but pay for everything yourself? Still a negative?