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I really don't know what to say . All the posters have given nice suggestions to you. I think whatever your fears are you need to talk with your mom. She can be your best help and best friend. Many of us don't know anyone personally who has gone through such a horrible act but it can not be denied as it has happened with many young girls in the past. It is quite obvious that most of these cases would go unreported.
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I am taking everything at face value. She said father. That is why I say the girl is a bit creepy too.
I dunno man. If there wer some childhood incidents, it makes sense. Thats why i asked how was her upbringing and how was he with her, that woudl really help us to know.
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Same here. If there are no prior incidents she is creepy. If there are she needs to call the police ASAP.
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Isn't there a statue of limitations?
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On cases of child abuse I do not believe so. But I am not a lawyer.
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is it all of a sudden?? as it seems from the posts?? if it is...definitly paranoia...
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On cases of child abuse I do not believe so. But I am not a lawyer.
Depends on the jurisdiction - in Canada (criminal code is a national law) there is no statute of limitation on child abuse. In US, it differs from state to state since criminal law is legislated by each state.
I have no idea about European or South Asian countries.
Back to the topic initiated by the OP. Trust your instincts. If you are uncomfortable, find ways to protect yourself and avoid the company of the uncle and father. If it's paranoia on your part, then the less time spent with them, the fewer possibilities for your suspicions.
If you are right about their bad intentions, again avoid being alone with them.
To those here who are skeptical, I know of two women, one desi and one who is not desi, who were molested as children. The desi girl by an "uncle", one of those "friends" of the family. The other girl, a non-desi girl who was in fact abused by her father. To this day, I see the fallout of the abuse in their lives. The worst of the tragedy was how no one wanted to believe them and the people who should have protected them, doubted their claims.
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Some men are just creepy...they stare ... my jithani told me several times that our FIL keep staring at her if no one is around i didnt believe her ... one day i saw him staring at her through a dressing table mirror she was b feeding her baby behind the door ... my FIL was standing outside her room n looking through mirror... he is my popha so i dont have this problem ...i told her to tell her husband but she is scared that he might not believe her.... if i were at her place i would have told my husband .... this is ridiculous... @ OP ... tell your husband about the situation but make sure that you are not misunderstanding anything
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Isn't there a statue of limitations?
You mean statute? I believe for such things its the life of the victim...
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Uncle creepy. Father no comments as of yet. Girl also a bit unhinged.
LMAO :p
I only heard of this on porn sites lol
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LMAO :p
I only heard of this on porn sites lol
what hte **** kind of porn are u watching!!!!!
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now that is something to think about 
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err
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I suggest you either:
a) inform someone
b) get help regarding this.
This is too serious an issue to not do anything about. :)
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If your instinct is telling you that your uncles/fathers intentions are not right, then you're probably right. Don't doubt yourself and stay away from them.
Your husband should be more understanding towards the situation though
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thanx everyone for your concerns, i think it my just be my paranoia but i will avoid being with them alone because i shouldn't take the risk
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star, was there ever a history of abuse?