Re: Girls photo getting rejected
There’s nothing really to “talk about”. Why would a guy or a girl pursue a relationship with someone if they don’t find that person attractive? As a female, I would not marry a man if I’m not attracted to him. I don’t know any man who would marry a woman if they don’t find that woman physically attractive. And beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Just because a girl is considered “beautiful” by most people, that doesn’t mean that every single man out there will find her attractive.
I have rejected guys before b/c I did not find their picture attractive.
My SO has rejected girls before after seeing their pics. He has said that it’s simply b/c he didn’t find them attractive. It’s nothing personal. His parents brought him many “picture perfect” rishtas…girls from rich, highly educated families…girls who had degrees from Ivy League colleges…but my SO just didn’t feel any interest when he saw the pics.
On a total side note, when I first started dating SO, his did not tell his parents about me for quite a while. So in the beginning when we were dating, his parents did bring him rishtas that he rejected…b/c he was already dating me (he showed me the pics/bio datas he was being sent). Now that his parents know about me, they don’t send him any more pics. I’m sure there are many cases out there that are similar…the guy’s parents actively searching for girls while the son already has a GF that he’s planning on marrying. In those cases, if the guy already has a GF he’s decided on marrying, then of course he’ll reject all rishtas his parents bring him…no matter how “perfect” those other girls might be.