Re: GIRLS!! Non-Virgin Bride DILEMMA!!
Seriously, if any inlaws are doing that then they have real issues...barf
I think she should be more concerned about her mistake in front of Allah, than in front of her husband. If she has realized the significance of what she has done and has repented for it and sought forgiveness from Allah, then I think she should neither try to dupe him into thinking she is still a virgin, nor should she tell him about it (unless she thinks she caught some disease or something, in which case he does have the right to know! Maybe she should see a gyno first). Everyone makes mistakes, some bigger than others. None of us sit down with our husband on the wedding night and say that I did such and such sin and I did such and such sin. I think the important thing is seeking forgiveness from Allah and turning to a better life. This will bring more blessing and happiness in her marriage