Girls Mature Earlier Than Boys

How do you interpret this statement?

Do You Agree?

NOTE: This with respect to the maturity vis a vis relationships / marriage etc.

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No, it's a ridiculous statement. If you treat someone like a baby they will continue to act like a baby and vice versa.

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Any fruit that take it's time to ripe is sweet.

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generally they mature later i think

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BS

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not true at all, esp these days.

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Girls mature physically if that's what you mean. I think that's what most old ladies meant. Once a girl starts to menstruate they start looking for Rishtas. Guys on the other hand chillax until they're 30 to get married :D

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good observation, bro...but make sure it doesn't get over-ripened or else *us meN "keeRe" paR jaayeNge. *:D

Responsibility wise, girls do mature up earlier than boys.

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girls mature earlier for house chores [umoor-e-Khaana_daarii, ghareloo kaam kaaj] while boys mature earlier for outdoor chores [sauda sulf, baahar ke kaam kaaj]…:hmmm:

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^ This!!!

I've also observed that people behave in accordance to how you treat them. If you instill responsibility and expect children to behave in an age appropriate manner, they mature accordingly. However, if you baby someone until age 21 and don't expect any responsibility from them, you shouldn't be surprised if they behave immaturely. I've noticed that this is true for both boys and girls. Of course, there may be exceptions but it's what I've generally observed.

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Exactly ... get married asap :)

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meraa comment to "matured" laRkiyoN ke liye thaa! :D

btw, i am getting married in January, iA :)

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Congratulations :k:

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thank you :slight_smile:

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Please shed some light on it. What do you mean by responsibility wise. Some examples would be appreciated.

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may i mention a few?

responsibility towards chores, studies, caring for parents/siblings. enuf?

Please shed some light on it. What do you mean by responsibility wise. Some examples would be appreciated.
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Kkf pretty much summed it up.

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Are these qualities inherent or just a result of how the girls are treated while growing up?

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part inherent, part training and part self consciousness due to female chemistry. Allah created them that way. masha Allah.