Girls, mangni tut gai.. now what?

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Sorry if this topic brings back sad memories…

How do you girls move on? Let’s say it was an arranged rishta and you liked the husband-to-be and all of a sudden it didn’t work out. How do you move on?

I know of one girl who has moved on and 6 months after her mangni broke, she is now getting married insh’Allah! Just thought to throw that in there so people don’t feel depressed. Happiness does come around. :slight_smile:

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Re: Girls, mangni tut gai.. now what?

Meri mangni bhi tooti thi aik daffa. :naak:

But it all worked out and we got married. Alhamdulilah.

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I know some girls whose rishtas were rejected just before the baat pakki and they still regret it....and others whose weddings were cancelled...and they're moving on just fine.

There shouldn't be a time limit between the breakup of the engagement and the next marriage, everyone needs to move on at their own pace, whether its 6 months, a year, 2 years etc/

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Re: Girls, mangni tut gai.. now what?

mangni tut gi tarak kar kaye.

I think shadi bya is never in our hands anyway. It's all decided in the Heavens so if it doesnt work out at the first juncture it truly wasnt a match approved from above :)

So let the experience strenghten you and wait until the next rishta comes because believe me, there will always be someone else :)

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Better single than sorry :)

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A VERY close relative of mine had her mangi TOOT after 6-8 months of engagement but it was from her side. Her parents had some genuine concerns about the guy after they came to know few things about him.

Her mom/dad consulted me too. And her mom was like "ho sakta hai yee information ghalat ho like dil nahee manta" ...and I told her that you should not take "chance" on your girl's life. Ager dil nahee manta tu you better not.

Girl herself was in sad zone for couple of months (after all you get attached to a person ..and on top of it they used to talk on phone quite a lot) but she couped up quite well and she is Mashallah happily married now.

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Re: Girls, mangni tut gai.. now what?

meri mangni tootnay he wali thee k hum ne jore li glue laga k....

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glue sai tu aaj kal envelope nahee chipakta mangni/rishta kia chaleey gee ..think about it :)

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We had a broken engagement in the family too...the girl was very much in love and he broke it off.

She was heartbroken about it for a few months but then another rishta came along out of the blue that was perfect for her...they are very happily married now Mashallah.

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lol. nahin glue se rishtay khoob chaltay hain ;)

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Meri nahin toot rehi main kiya keroon!!! ?>>?>?>??>>>?

:@:

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Jaanu, aisa soch b mat! Itni asani se jaan nhi chor raha :)

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i know of a guy who was engaged to be married for the second time after divorce. wedding invites were sent out and a week or so before the wedding he just cancelled it and disappeared. the girl he was engaged to had already had one engagement broken,poor soul. i imagine she was pretty upset. the guy's parents were really upset too.

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a broken engagement is much better than a broken marriage . Just be thankful to Allah may be He has saved you from misery and pain of an unstable and unhappy marriage.

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theres the bottom line right there..

but yeah I think in most cases.. as soon as another good rishta comes along, the girl would be fine then.. haan if it was a rishta within the family then youre opening up a whole other can of worms.. that would probably tear apart a family?

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:bummer: