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[Maham]

@zobia

the guys parents are not agreeing for his marriage with you, will you still insist him to convince his parents? do you think all the effort worth it? i know the power of love can make you to many insane things, but dont you think you have to convince the guy for every single thing for the rest of your life? and in our culture where parents not only guide us but also (99%) protect relationships (e.g. if wife cant his husband of him coming late, then his wife can for sure ask him why is he doing that and stop doing it), do you think its good to marry where except for the guy, no one is willing to accept you. even if they accept you, but are not willing to help you in any way. (may be they will in near future, but only God knows how much time it will take).

ps. its not my story. at least three couples i know facing the situation.

There is no direct answer for this situation or so i think cuz it really depends on the real situation n circumstances. I know i would be very concerned if i am going in a marriage where the guy’s parents are not accepting of me cuz…

1. For me marriage is not only about the union of two people but their families too.

2. If they are not accepting me and i think they have no genuine reason to do so, then that had make me feel not rite abt that family so why step into something which already seems troublesome.

3. No matter what even if the guy is wanting to marry u against his parents wishes it wl alarm me cuz if a guy can go against his parents wishes then he can do so for anybody at all including his wife.

Its very complicated and i rather extend my family with welcoming members and nt just barge into somebodys home n lives like an intruder or atleast i had feel so.