I was talking to someone and something about Rihanna and Chris Brown came up. Anyways, it led to the discussion of whether if you hit your SO/Husband, you should expect to be hit back. I found this plain baffling and frankly pretty effed up. But then I was thinking about it and I realized many people may just hit out of a reflex. Although I would NEVER hit my husband, but if I was to, I know for a fact he would never put his hands on me.
Do you guys think a guy could unintentionally hit a girl if she was stupid enough to hit him? Do you think it’s foolish for a girl to expect to NOT be hit back if she hits a guy?
p.s. Now I know if I hit my brothers (younger than me) I will probably get something back to some degree but then again they won’t actually cause harm nor hit hard but that’s sibling stuff which is not what this thread is about.
Re: Girls: If you hit a guy, do you expect to be hit back?
When i was in Libya, a girl slapped a guy in market & boy also slapped her back no body interrupted … Agra Pakistan main aisa hota to larki kay naam nihaad bhaeon nay uss larkay ko kut kut kay bheegi billi bana daina tha
Re: Girls: If you hit a guy, do you expect to be hit back?
Okaay deep breath…
I’ll start again shall I…
Ah where was I… yes on the issue of girls hitting guys. In general we gentlemen do not hit back, I for one try never to get into that situation in the first place but when it comes to hitting back I have not yet raised hands to a woman.
However I cannot say that my reflexes wont kick into action, especially if someone came at me from behind and I did not have any idea who the attacker was… I would almost certainly fight back and could potentially cause injury to a female, however it would be by accident not deliberate in such a case.
I do remember once my elder sister got angry with some other friends of hers and she was holding back. I stupidly stepped in and told the other girls who at that time were a lot older than me and were my sisters age so young adults and I was just a boy of about 8. One of the other girls slapped me and I glowered back at her
But my elder sister, and I remember this vividly upper cutted one girl and grabbed another by her hair and slammed her face into a table. Well she is my sister after all.
She has been happily married for some years now bless her but it goes to show even the kindes soul in my fammily fights like a demon.
So gentlemen if you do happen to be on the verge of being attacked by an agressive member of the opposite sex make sure you have your big sister with you so she can put the opposition in its place.
Works just as well if your a girl, if a bunch of guys come at you, send in the big brother…
Re: Girls: If you hit a guy, do you expect to be hit back?
As a woman, yes, if I slapped a guy…I would not be surprised or offended if he slapped me back. If I can dish it out…I can take it too. Especially with my husband…in my relationship…I always remind that as life-partners…I consider myself his equal. Heck to be honest…if I’m angry enough to the point where I actually hit a guy…if he did not hit me back…I’d probably taunt him for it!
As women we fight for equality on so many things…we want to be taken seriously and want to be treated as equals. But at the same time…we want to treated different (especially in situations where WE physically attack another person) simply b/c we’re “women”. It doesn’t make much sense to me.
Re: Girls: If you hit a guy, do you expect to be hit back?
Who even has expectations of being abused (even if it only happens once) by their spouse? I don't think anyone enters a relationship with such expectations. Rather you go into it with the TRUST that you'll be respected/protected/safe, etc. And when something like this takes place, it shatters that trust, so you've rocked the foundation of that relationship. I think when you're caught up in a heated altercation like that....things happen so quickly....that you're not even thinking about your "expectations" of how they'll react.
Re: Girls: If you hit a guy, do you expect to be hit back?
Who even has expectations of being abused (even if it only happens once) by their spouse? I don't think anyone enters a relationship with such expectations. Rather you go into it with the TRUST that you'll be respected/protected/safe, etc. And when something like this takes place, it shatters that trust, so you've rocked the foundation of that relationship. I think when you're caught up in a heated altercation like that....things happen so quickly....that you're not even thinking about your "expectations" of how they'll react.
dude ab sochti mat raho.... shadi madi karo.. practical ker ky dekho
Re: Girls: If you hit a guy, do you expect to be hit back?
look at the guy in the white trying to be the knight and shining armour. Should have desparation tattood across his forehead aswell. Would just love to jump in that screen and kick seven shades of out of him. Anyways i would never ever raise a hand to a women - ive got too much respect for them. Only thing worse than hitting a women is hitting a child.
@ this thread
no body interrupted … Agra Pakistan main aisa hota to larki kay naam nihaad bhaeon nay uss larkay ko kut kut kay bheegi billi bana daina tha 
It doesn’t make much sense to me.
