girls family & guys family

[Reha]

Re: girls family & guys family

@mia999

yes my family did book the hotel, catering, cards, decoration, photographer and so on but now his family is saying (not to us but to my fiance) and he told me tht girls family does eveything and they are asking if i have booked a room for shaadi night. i meann whyy?? they are coming to get me and i ll just leave with them why would i book a room?
and should my parents call his family to tell them wht hotel we have booked for the shaadi and wht food we are getting and so on?

In my experience so far, the shaadi room (the hotel the bride and groom spend their wedding night in) is usually booked by the guy’s side. At least that’s what I have seen so far.

After Rukhsati, its up to the guy’s side what they want to do. If its a hotel they want, then they pay for it. They take the girl away on the day of the baraat…she goes with them to wherever they take her…it makes no sense for the girl to pay for that too.

The shaadi function is from the girl’s side…its not for the guys to dictate what happens that day so for them to want to be chased after is pretty stupid IMHO.

I would ignore all of this…if they bring it up then tell them plain and simple: its up to THEM where they choose to take their new bahu…so if its going to be a hotel…you would be more than happy to let them know of local accommodations but that’s about it.