girls dressing in all girls party

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^That’s a pretty cool analogy. Interesting.

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Well…I worked in the UAE for 5 yrs…lived in Abu Dhabi and Dubai…and I worked in a Hotel…and I have seen how they some in, with whom they come in..and WHAT they wear and HOW they wear it.

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I know.

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Maybe that should explain their attire. Not everyone that wears an abaya is a satti savatri.

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Yeaaa…and then they start complaining that boys are staring at them :smack:

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Since when Pakistanis living abroad became so conscious about dresses? (when they lose all other Paki values)

I used to think of it as a Pakistani problem.

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^ Is that a question for me or just in general?

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Now what is a “Paki value” and why is it abroad Pakistanis should not care about having values? :rolleyes:

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My friend’s bhabhi is Lebanese Muslim. This woman is very religious - wearing a scarf and abaya when she goes out - won’t shake male colleagues hand, etc., etc.

But, when she’s in an all women’s setting, she’ll wear short dresses, sleeveless tops. Yahan tak, the ladies (because they’re Middle Eastern) have belly-dancing parties. They don’t consider it wrong when they’re among other women.

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That’s the point I was trying to make earlier. Some women will do it for the “humor”…doesn’t mean that they dress this way on a regular basis. Depends upon the individual.

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Some of the Arab functions i’ve been to…where it’s ladies only…

Hubba hubba :hayaa:

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I don’t know the answer to your question :konfused:

I don’t mean shedding Pakistani values and adopting values of new homeland is bad.
But why make so much fuss about dresses only when anything else doesn’t matter?

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This thread is useless without pics. :smiley:

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^Lollolll init :wink:

j/k slutty as in bikini tops that are 3 sizes too small or shorts and a tee? We all know what we can show to people of our own gender islamically, usually these women would follow that. At an all girls party usually i just take my hijab off, my clothes are always normal.

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It’s okay, but I don’t do it. I might wear slightly more revealing clothes, but nothing that would ever look “slutty.”

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We need to hangout.

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I think sharm o hayaa, modesty, is an attitude felt from within. How can you feel differently at different places. Maybe at a ladies only gathering I would be more casual, but I would still wear the kind of clothes I always where regardless of whether it’s a “mixed” gathering or ladies only.

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**No its not “okay” to be showing any area from your chest to your knees. **

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it means dressing up like Pakisani filmi heroines.

so i am not calling anyone a sl*t but the way girls dress up in all-girls gathering do amazes me that is sharam-o-hayaa only means to be in conscious when men are around, otherwise you can go as much wild as you can.

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i know its just for fun…girls also dont seem to have any wrong intentions…but is it justifiable?