So what’s the criteria for being “be-sharam”?
In college, I went to several parties hosted by the MSA that were for girls only. Many girls dressed in what could be considered “normal” clothes because on a day to day basis, they wore hijab/abaya/loose clothes/long shirts etc. I would say not a single one was dressed “sluttish” or “provocative”
Many aunties will take off the duputta from their heads in women-only gatherings…to some thats besharam.