AWW you guys r the best! :D. I read these replies and they made me sooooo happy :) :). I knew I did the right thing by keeping quiet and just telling my fiance.
Syraa, trust me, I did have a LONGGGGGG HARD CRYYYY while driving home :(. I guess part of the reason why my fiance was SOOO angry was cuz I was crying so badly while talking to him :(.
Redvelvet, I totally see what ur saying and I couldn't agree more, but we live in a civilized society and to do something like that isn't acceptable no matter how hurt or jealous u r.
Anyways, all I know is that this saturday we're meeting up and my fiance promised me that he will get me an apology. He was sooo damn angry at his bro he even went as far as saying "if she doesn't apologize to my girl I am going to slap that b*tch" But I know he would never do that cuz he isn't like this.
Again, thanks a lot for all ur wonderful comments guys :).
and soundarya, forgot to reply to u. I think they just saw me park my car and then followed me from the parking lot. Although, my bro-in-law's gf did show up to my work place once with one of her friends and I saw her there but didn't say anything. I told my fiance that too and he told his bro to tell her to stay away from me. I unno wats wrong with them...God help them. Thanks for ur kind words though :)
u totally did the right thing by ignoring those cows!! i can't believe that they would actually behave like that! if this girl marries ur BIL, god help u if u all have to live in the same house. i hope ur BIL has a firm word with her and makes her apologise to u. her behaviour is totally unacceptable.
thx lipstick.
I know. I do not want anything to do with her. I even spoke to my bil last nite and told him that I can forgive her but I will not forget this and he should not expect me to make friends with her after this cuz lets be honest, both of us rnt going to be true to each other as friends so wats the point of this fake friend ship.
Anyways, no I was not since his parents do not know abt her. He hasn't really spoken to them abt her yet. He is just waiting for the older bro's marriage to be done so he can bring her up to them. Only me n my fiance know abt her since he tells his bro everything and his bro tells me everything :P
She was totally out of order. I don't know if in your position I would even want to know her! But unfortunately you will be attached to her through marriage if she does end up marrying your brother in law to be, so for the sake of keeping relations you will have to be civil. She really isn't worth much more, you have clearly shown a lot of dignity in the whole situation.
Thats pathetic. But in all honesty i wouldnt of kept my cool. Especially if i saw some idiot that tried to break up me and my bf, AND on top of that swearing at me. I would flip out completly.. You did well keeping ur cool. Pathetic little GIRL she is! Dont worry tho if ur potential BIL stays with her then just cut contact with both of them.
I remember when my bfs brother disrespected me, I cut contacted with both him and his wife. And so did my bf. You dont need low lives in ur life. x
