I have noticed this in a lot many girls, if a guy sends them a friend request on facebook, they think “Oh my God! he likes me ..”, if a guy looks at them, they think* “Oh my God! .. why is he staring at me?”* etc.
Although, im a girl, i dont like this syndrome of the female species. They feel they are the prettiest of the lot, every guy around is hitting on them, every guy who talks to them has a hidden notion behind it.
Just an example of a distant friend of mine, that just ticked off my patience-
If she and i have any common guy friend from college and he adds her, she specially calls me and asks me why did he add me? I thought he was engaged. He doesnt know me much why is he interested in sending me a request? It happened once, twice but again. I got annoyed by it. I mean whats the big deal, he added me too, whats all the fuss about? Its not like he sent a marriage proposal. Relax!
Then today, this new thing happened with her. My brother works in a firm, where his job requires a lot of travel and a lot of meetings in different organizations, banks, software houses, big names every where. So by chance he had a meeting with the heads of her organization. He went there for the meeting. And since then she has been texting me,* Why is he here? What meetings? Who is he here to meet? Why this office, why not any other branch?* … Arrr!!! Relax girl-He isnt there stalking you, he is there for some work.
Ive seen such kind of behaviour in numerous girls, they feel every other guy is indecent. I am not saying every guy is an angel but not every guy has the same motive behind every move of theirs.Its not like every guy stalks girls, wants to get married to you, stares at you, loves you or wants to have babies with you. Girls should really chill out some times!
A recent case has taught me that true love should not be and is never entirely dependant on appearance alone. A close friend of mine has been through hell and although he looks like a monster he was once a man and proabbaly better than myself and many others.
But cruel fate has deprived him of his good looks and he has even lost his sight, yet his wife has not given up his side and even in the depths of misery she has supported him through thick and thin.... Years have gone by now but thier love is as strong as ever and Masha Allah his sons are among the best in our community.
It goes to show that looks are not everything. I also knew a woman who was very beautifull and yet instead of falling for a dashing young dandy she chose to follow a Paindoo type lad and confront the hardships of life with one who would not leave her side for another.
True, today many women are not as they should be but thats also an opportunity for the ones that are decent to shine out....
At the end of the day if you want something that bad then theres very little to stop you attaining it just remmber though.... you reap what you sow.
i hate it when they get all high on themselves and then put other girls down. that deserves a kick to their egos to get them back down to earth, confidence is different from annoying arrogance, it'll soon come back to them if not now then later in life when they really need somebody
daffyduck you should watch Veena Mallik on Bigg Boss season 4, never watched the show in my life but got hooked b/c of her, when i read what you wrote it totally reminded me of how she’s been acting on the show in character(i guess), i’m hoping she comes down to earth soon.
although the staring thing is something that isn’t in the mind of a woman sometimes though, there are guys that do that unfortunately, speak speak speak
daffy, HAHAHAHHA it's called paranoia...rofllllll..self-obsession too
(though i do get weird about stares at times....only because i get conscious)
the bold exactly, it's the uncomfortable feeling or feeling of being even more self conscious then usual. i hope and wish the man would just come over and talk over what's on his mind, even if the stare is completely unrelated to looks or attraction, just so a woman can be put at ease that it's not b/c of gum stuck to her shoe or her backside...you know what i mean right thank you
Baat karne ka ek tareeqa hota hai. If a random guy stops me in the corridor and asks for my facebook account I am obviously going to roll my eyes not because I suffer from the hotty syndrome but because that guy has no manners.
But yes, girls who think the whole world revolves around them are annoying.
I know girls like this…it gets annoying but the best way to handle it is to brush it off. I had one friend who would get high - she still does - off of anyone that looked in her direction. According to her, no one can look as pretty as her and she cannot stop fishing for compliments. Its obvious she spent time doing her hair but will openly put herself down so she can get a compliment. Most people dont realize it and fall for this. I start to tell them what they need to do to make it better…
If they bring it up, say “my brother was there for work” and literally change the subject immediately. This usually tells them they’re not on anyone’s mind and no one cares to spend another second talking about them.
I know, right! I have a friend who does that and I just ignore it. Like she says that “o, my make up is so horrible” or “my hair looks really bad” then instead of giving a compliment, i just change the subject or say “its ok” or “its not that bad”. lol I love teh look on her face when I say that. hahahha
Oh yeah talk about her. I have seen her on the show saying “I am soo beautiful, i know”, the other day she said to shweta “i am so pretty, i can get any man in the world on my bed”. She is so full of her self
Totally agree with you, but here i am talking about a decent guy who was our classfellow and we all know he isnt the sort who would randomly add girls on facebook.
Oh yeah, many many girls do that - put down their self so that others praise and say no no its not that bad, in fact you look supeeerrrrrr doooooooooperrrrr pretttttttyyyyyyy
daffyduck you should watch Veena Mallik on Bigg Boss season 4, never watched the show in my life but got hooked b/c of her, when i read what you wrote it totally reminded me of how she’s been acting on the show in character(i guess), i’m hoping she comes down to earth soon.
