Re: girls and guys that grew up in the west
I agree with Maddy, I would think religious identity is much more important than the cultural one. My top most priority would be to raise good muslims InshaAllah. I think it would be hard to maintain a "I am a Pak (or any other nationality)" mentality no matter where ever you live abroad. I grew up in the middle east and now live in the US. And trust me when i say i am as confused as kids can get about their cultural identity even t hough i speak perfect non-accented urdu and can even read/write it.