Girls and flowers

Ok, I really don’t get it. I was reading the Valentine’s thread and it struck me …

…what the heck is it about flowers that girls like? I’m sure I can’t be the only guy who really cannot fathom what is so romantic about giving a girl the hacked off reproductive parts of a plant.

I think it’s one of those things guys do without understanding the meaning only cos it seems to impress girls for some strange reason.

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They are supposed to be a reflection of feminity. How, I don't know. Where are all the fags when you need em?

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cus their beautiful... and smell nice

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Yeah, but so do girls. Yet they get annoyed if you bring another girl home instead of a bunch of flowers :teary1:

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well.. its not as if flowers can take away ur man.... a girl can

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On a more serious note, just what is special about getting aesthetically and olifactoraly pleasant hacked off reproductive parts of plants?

The point I'm getting as is trying to understand what is special about flowers. If I can understand what special about them, perhaps giving them will one day come easier to me....

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hmm i dunno.. i guess we dont really think about all the technicality of it... its the same thing as somenoe giving u chocolates, teddies, jewelerry.. any type of gift actually... it just means that ur loved.. and that reminder is always nice..

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So essentially, it's a matter of showing an attention seeker that she has your attention?

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no... not really..

i mean gift gifting is part of Islam too (i think.. not sure... mum told me it is).. like it shows affection and love..

it doesnt have anything to do with attention... i personally love giving gifts to people i care for, just to remind them how much they mean to me... the thought of them seeking attention would never even cross my mind... does it cross urs?

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ummm…i personally LOVEEEEEEEE flowers…
i dunno…they r so pretty…n soft…n n…i dunno…its very romantic for a guy to give a girl a flower :smiley: …girls tend to like it a lot…
they smell really good :love: n they r…well…sign of love…so it makes u feel good :smiley:
i guess…

i love it when some1 gives me flowers :blush:

be it a lil kid…(which is usually the case) …friend…ya koee larka :halo:

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So girls need constant physical tokens as evidence that they still emotionally mean something to their guy?

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not at all.. i certainly dont..

im talknig in general terms… gift giving is such a sweet gesture.. thats all

personally, i think girls like to “hear” things more than being “given” stuff.. but that depends on how much one values materialistic things… i couldnt careless to be honest.. ive only just started to get things :blush: and let me tell u.. its kinda wierd.. very special though..

everyone has their own way of showing and getting affection.. some do it thru gifts.. some do it thru words… a balance between the two is always good though

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Aw I love flowers, whether they are from my parents, friends or someone special. The sight of them just makes me so happy. Heck I even like the flower they have on msn messenger, flowers are just perfect!

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omg same here :smiley:

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I think you answered your own question.

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Flower*s: *no
A Flower: Hell yeah!

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Flowers don't impress girls. When guys can't think of anything else they always go for a bunch of roses for some reason and girls have to act a bit and be dishonest that they love'em.

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Jeez it's getting confusing with opinions like Destinee's around
I guess amongst girls about flowers, many opinions do abound

When I do get a girl I'll have to give a bright coloured bunch
And hope that she likes them and I get rewarded for the hunch

On this note I think I'll give this problem a rest
Men's thinking is so simple, we truly are the best.

Hey one question for mahnoor to ask I meant
Did you get that PM earlier tonight that I sent?

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^ :rotfl: wah wah wah!

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hacked off reproductive parts of a plant

you've already answered the question - they scream out "lets reproduce"