Re: Girl and guy freind: See why guys can’t trust womens’ judgement.
eww, what an idiot!
I agree, I don’t think men and women can be friends “forever”. One of them always develops feelings for the other. In my case, most of the guys I have given a chance to get to know me a little better have expressed that they have started to form different feelings and I backed out because I was not attracted to those guys and wasn’t looking for a serious friendship or anything more. One case was extremely surprising because that guy always used to put me down and made me feel like crap. I hated his guts. But when I moved, he suddenly became so interested and wanted to start a long distance relationship.
The first guy to ever become my good friend was actually a really good catch. We had a lot in common; in fact, he used to call himself my twin. I think overtime I started becoming attached to him when he was just being friendly. That freaked him out and he distanced himself.
So yeah it hasn’t worked in my case at all.
Re: Girl and guy freind: See why guys can't trust womens' judgement.
I remember a uni-freind who used to exhale cig's smoke on his female buddy's face, aur akar humay kehta tha, woh mera mind nahi kerti, mah jo merzi karaoon, khair I used to find it disrespectfull.
There could be some reason why she took that behavior from him...yes?
Re: Girl and guy freind: See why guys can’t trust womens’ judgement.
Nah bruv, you prolly weren’t in MH’s shoes. Because its more likely that she sets the boundaries in her friendships with guys. Unlike in your case where your female friends set the boundaries.
Btw, since you get along with girls so perfectly, and are so respectful and nice to your plentiful female friends, its a bit surprising there was only one girl who developed a liking for you, among them. You sound like every thing girls ask for.
And dont be ashamed of your sexuality. Nothing wrong with the ‘wandering eyes’ as long as you dont offend anyone.