I am capable of changing my behavior in few seconds. I have a good side and an evil one too. I was not like that always , zamanay key thokroon nay sekha dia hay sub kuch. :hinna: But in my case the stimulant to make me change color has to be very very offensive , little irritations of life do not bother me.
Can you relate to that ?
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
I am a mirror, i will reflect whatever colour anyone approaching me will have, yet I dont change anything :)
:k: A good point to ponder.
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I still have to learn the ways of a girgit … 
for some reason , I feel i always have to be me … so for example if some one is being nasty with me , i tend to let them become aware that they are being offensive but i wont be equally bad as them …werna un mein aur mujme fark kia ho ga …
and because of this approach of mine , people misuse my nice-ness … but i just cant seem to let go and let the chamilleon take over in me …
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
hmmmmmmmmmmmm
i need some classes about it : P
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
I just treat people the way they treat me. It keeps things simple. :)
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
I understand and can relate to both you and X2.
But I try to tone down my evil side and over-deliver on my good side. Just to keep the balance tipped in my favor.
eska kea metleb he urdu meyn beh daso 
Urdu tarjuma iss jumlay key rooh ko fana kar day ga , baat main woh gahra-e nahi rahay gee, magar try karta hoon , agar samajh sako toh.
Main aik aina hoon, jo bhee maree taraf atta hay uska jo bhee rang ho wohee meray hota hay, laikin mujhay khud kuch tabdeel karnay key zaroorat nahi partee.
I just treat people the way they treat me. It keeps things simple. :)
Really
So if someone flirts with you, you will flirt back?
Oye- TLK jaldi say aao.
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
^ Uff! That is not what I meant. Leave it to you.
If someone is mean to me, then I see no reason to smile or be nice to them.
If someone is nice to me, I see no reason to be mean to them.
^ Uff! That is not what I meant. Leave it to you.
If someone is mean to me, then I see no reason to smile or be nice to them.
If someone is nice to me, I see no reason to be mean to them.
Sometimes with the 'meanies' killing with kindness works better.
If they are important to me, I allow them. Everyone should be allowed to be mean every now and again.
If they are people who dont deserve that much importance anway, also allow them, who are they eh...
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
Sometimes killing with kindness does work, you're right. But only if you want a relationship with that person to work.
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
Not necessarily. More like, I should be investing my time in someone who is worth it. Being mean is hard work, in my opinion its just the same as being nice, if not, more time consuming. You have to invest. Why waste my time in someone who clearly isnt worth it. I would much rather be kinder to them if im going to invest anything. Fretting over insignificant people is a huge waste of my resources. I save the real meanness for people who actually mean something.
Yes, I am somewhat twisted. Allow it innit. :D
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
disguising is not hard for me.
simple rule of thumb is dont hate anyone, just hate their disgusting actions. and you dont have to change anything.
else it is upto others either to become a western ullo, or an eastern ullo. :)
I like this line and intend to use it. :k:Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
i can't do that
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
Rang badalna is not my style...it used to be, then I realised I was just being what other people wanted me to be.
So I've just tried being myself now. By that I mean I've worked on making myself a better person. If you do all things with that aim that you are doing it for the love of God and to give Him glory, you will find that you have only one true self to exhibit.
People say that they adapt to the attitude of others...negative attitudes and situiations shouldn't bring out negativity from you. Rather your positivity can improve the situation or attitudes of others.
Most of us are scared of being laughed at for who we were...but in the long haul those very same people will respect you for your consistency in character and self.
Re: GirGit key tarah rang badalna/Changing color like a Chameleon.
I've alwys been gud all the time in past, but now i think i m changing my behaviour all negative cz depnds on situation.i m turning like those ppl who gives bk answer on ur face. which i think is na gud,i should stay as i was.