the guy that i will insha-allah marry…he sends me gifts but he says I cant send him anything. I dont understand why…
he says I cant stop him from sending anything…no matter how big it is…cuz I will break his heart…but i cant send him anything…he says things like whatever is his is also mine…hence his only sending me what is mine anyway…
and when I say dont send me anything …he doesnt listen. he says he’ll listen to me about anything else but just not this.
and today he told me his got a new phone…he showed me a pic of it and i said its really nice (he changes his fone every month). anyway then he said theres something he wants to say…but then he says “actually you’ll find out when u get it”…and then i managed to make him tell me. he said he’s gotten 2 same phones…one for me and one for him…cuz he wants us to have the same phones. I told him he shouldnt have got it …but then he says im breaking his heart again. how can I accept that when he doesnt let me give him anything? what should I do? send him gifts anyway…even if he doesnt agree…or stick to his deal that only his allowed to give me stuff?
is it just him who thinks that way…or other guys too?
I'm sure there must be people out there who don't prefer to accept gifts, but are generous when it comes to giving'em out to others. Try telling him it'd make you feel better if you can send him presents as well.
I agree, it feels good to shop for someone u love n see how happy they are to get it and yeah guys feel the same way(as long as its something they want) about getting gifts, they just dont show it. And dont send him crappy stuff n expect him to like it :p
Sorry Impulse but the guy sounds a bit too soft hearted and patronising. Why is he saying you're breaking his heart just for saying he shouldnt have bought the same phones? Its all too soppy from a guy's point of view. And then turn around and stop you from sending him gifts, a meaningful gesture which woman love doing? How can a gift break someones heart?
Are you SURE you know this guy as well as you should? :-|
Besides, us guys love recieving gifts. Especially Rolex watches and the latest Nokia phones, so spend away :)
Sadiyah - its not about some1 not liking to receive gifts. its an issue about him being a guy.,…and the guys the one who should give the gifts…not the girl. thats his thinking…
funguy - im glad his not like you saying things like “send the gifts to me”
Tikhi -yeah I think i will send him something anyway…its not like im going to listen to him…and for ur information, I wouldnt send anything crappy. he’s worth alot more than that
Sara516 - I wouldnt mind if he sent a gift once in a while…but he got soemthing last week…and today got the phone…i think its too much. but he wont listen.
hiccup -I love to give too…
**TheNewWannabe **- yeah hes a jewel for many other reasons too
**Starsky **- I like him just the way he is…whether u think he’s too softhearted or whatever u think. we get on really well…and I like everything about him. u can be the tough mean kind of guy u want…but I dont think many girls like that (not the ones I know anyway). he says i’ll break his heart if I dont accept it…whats so soppy about that? if thats how he feels then thats how it is. and id rather he be soft hearted rather than some stonehearted pig. he says I can send him gifts…my “smile, love etc…” but nothing else. he’s not greedy unlike some people
sac - yeah he’s madly in love and so am I what do u think I should send him?
