thanks for the suggestions but I know her better than anyone here. She is a homebody and if you ask her out she will always make excuses not to go out. It’s just not her thing and she is just a lot more comfortable in the house. She goes shopping maybe two or three times in the year. Enjoys eating her own cooked food not eating out. That’s just how she is.
At home I try to spend as much time as I can with her. I think it’s crazy that you’re suggesting I spend even more time with her and neglect all other people in my life. I also have parents, a husband, siblings and friends. I try to give them some of my time on my Saturday alternating between them all. On Sunday’s I have a lie in until 10-11am then I arrange all my things that get disorganised over the week, vacuum the whole house, do laundry and ironing, cook some dishes and yes in between all that I sit down with her whenever I need a breather and we have a chat over tea.