Re: Gifting gold to groom’s mother/siblings
really? well we havent had a lot of shadis in the family.since the elder cousins were all married and had kids by the time we grew up into teenagers,which is i believe when the whole crazy fascination with weddings begins:)
at my sisters wedding all the giving was done by us all the taking there was, was taken care of by the grooms side 
and i thought that was the order of the things. of course there was ‘bari’ and everything but that was about it as far as the giving goes my mom and dad did get a suit each now i come to think of it though.