Gifting gold to groom's mother/siblings

Re: Gifting gold to groom’s mother/siblings

varies from families to families …

some are obliged based on tradition and since they are sending their daughters along to the in laws house they get scared about it

some are sooo courteous that they think gold/diamonds is the highest form of a gift that can be given and think no less gift will suffice ..

both are wrong but again you cant stop someone from GIVING a gift on the wedding .. a lot of people give baskets of goodies and clothes as well ..