Ghussa

Re: Ghussa

Also, if your relationship has taken place mostly through the Internet/online.....then do keep in mind that you will learn more about his character when you interact with him face to face. So even if you do decide to test him online....it may not exactly give you a clear picture because you won't be able to see his facial expressions or hear the tone of his voice.

You say that you him are distantly related. Are there any common relatives (maybe a cousin around your age) that knows him well and might give you an idea about his character? Then again, you'd have to pose the question in a way that won't cast any suspicion on you. That's another possibility, but it too comes with risk.

In general, relationships are risky (don't come with guarantees). And that said, I think you should just talk to him about the issue of anger. He'll appreciate that more than any games.

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Re: Ghussa

Why don't you just ask his close friends and family !!

I hope you know them and its not like a whole e-Relationship thingy . :p

Re: Ghussa

no no namaan hes some door ka rishtedaar ... gosh ishi u have too many door ke rishtedaar issues

Re: Ghussa

You should ask him plainly, what things make you angry, and what could be the extent of your reaction.

If he is the honest and good guy that you mention. He Would tell you.

Sometimes we all get angry and need to convey ourself but the crucial thing is to ensure we never do something in anger that would be irreversible.

i.e violence, personal insults in public, or uttering talaq.

Re: Ghussa

if u really like the guy this is a dangerous thing to do..u might permanetnly ruin ur relationship with him if u say something that really pisses him off..

Re: Ghussa

well, to be honest, you won't get to know about his anger or his personality until you both get married to each other.' After marriage life' is far more different than before marriage life. I have seen those couples who have been engaged and talking to each other (on phone) for 4-5 years but now their marriages are failed. Infact before marriage they both used to claim that they know each other VERY WELL but whenever you start living together under one roof, the actual understanding process begins.

If you really want to get married to someone then think seriously (not emotionally). I suggest you must keep his attitude and general behavior in your mind plus also ask your elders to get involved because they can better observe him.

Re: Ghussa

Just give it some time... kuch din mein apne aap hi pata chal jayega...